Get used to it!

Ciao tutti

Some mystical situation has appeared in my office. Today's like someone would like to tell me: "Why have you came to work?"

And what's this all about? Since 9.00a.m. I haven't reached any client on the phone! Check through over 20 addresses - but not one!!! Either they're on a fair, or they're on a businesstravel in other countries, or just occupied with other thing it's not possible to them to talk with me. That's a kind of frustration I don't like! Because I can't change this situation by myself! (can't force a CEO to gather his general assembly for me, or) :-)))

I'm motivated and want do some business (additionally to my rather job). But no one out there to make business! F***! :-) Well, I can do some preparations and acquire new addresses - so I may have again more potential for next week.

If this hold's on today two things happened.

1) My "one-phone-one-deal-per-day" will be cut of per today, because I didn't reach one. Well in any way, it a record of mine. 20 days in one row!

2) If point 1) will happen, I'll go home and maybe bether do thinks, where I can improve my skills in an other way. -Do you know what I meen? Just do some sport or learning.

I think, someone else wouldn't be that easy-minded, if they would have to approach the same situation. But I think, I can improve my lifestyle in a better way...

Well asta la victoria siempre!!! -Getting hungry! See you later!

Today's motto: Don't get your knickers in a twist! It won't be cleared on it's own - so give action!

being resourceful

Hey Volks! ;-)

Yesterday evening Fabienne came to visite me. She and I also do talk about manners we need to change and improve. That's what makes our relationship that special. It's like a team-member, that helps me being successful in the areas of my life, that I want to. Aswell this offer also is given back on my side to her. :-)

One thing we over and over handle out, is the communication! It's fuck' important! You will never get what you want, if you aren't clear with your communication. I don't meen just the out-coming words, that crosses others. I do talk about the inner communication to one self.

This morning has been a perfect model to explain. We stood up. My first thought was: "uaaaah, early mornin', gotta show once again what I got in me. -Let's brainwash me first! :-D" (Than I put in an audio-CD to motivations) Fabienne's first word (okay maybe it was one of the first): "Oh today's gonna be blodding!"

And now guess what!? As I entered the office I used my usual start-up, took of the phone and on my first call, just had one hit - one deal! (Just as well I got this same ritual since exactly twenty days holding on now)

I'll be lookin' forward, to what my lovey's feedback will be of today? ;-)
(Later-on she wrote me a message: it's not blodding, it's challenging)

It's getting clearer and clearer on every day. The more I change my focus into positive things, the more I focus myself on a positive communication, the more I'm getting successful. -Doesn't matter in which area of life. All-over!

Today's motto: "Get positive! - Or die trying it!" *hahahahaaa*

Rainy day - Halleluja!

Salut!

Come along with a deep breath yesterday, in consideration asking myself again how to improve my skills. So, I came home yesterday evening.

Do you know this fallowing: You KNOW, that many areas in your life have improved in an excellent way. But something deep in you can't stop asking you those questions above. So with me. The more I give action in any areas like job, pumpkin, sport, etc. -The more I ask myself why and how.

I'm motivated to work, to give the best, in my partnership, to drive-up my skills in sport. Asking myself these questions, does give me clearance. I want to know, if I still am focused on my goals or dispatch them.

The change I have done some months or years ago, have to improve recently and forevermore. Constantly! And that reminds me again to one of my most favored ideal - Anthony Robbins! He and his module CANI (Constant and never-ending improvement). How come, there's a trainer, a coach like him around, and still more, than 99,9% don't know him?

You should go to one of his seminars. Or read one of his book (as soon you've read one of them, you're addicted to read all of them anyway). ;-)
His modules do have helped me.

And something I haven't told to anyone yet: Every time, I have been in critical situations of life. (For example: Jobless and still studying and the question how to afford this all) I do take first the bible into my hands. I'm reading those pieces of wisdom to find consolation. And in this particularly situation, that has been about four to five times till today, after reading the bible something leaded me to take Tony's book. It's like something else tells me: If you wanna move something into good, you have to improve your own position!

It's not that extreme, than it sounds to. I see it more like a fluke. But in a way it's really strange... because I have realized this just the last time, I have been in such a situation. I guess an inner voice in me knows what I have to do in such situations. First doing something that's like balm on my spirit, than do something, that will catapult me into recourceful condition!

I think, that every human on this earth has got something, how to stand up again and again. That's my way. What's yours? Or you just get into this flow out there like anyone else???

Today's motto: It's not alone the decision - it's the action you make!

Terrific Weekend?!

Salutos!

This weekend past, I really enjoyed. So many exciting things happened and after all good impressions stayed. ;-)

Friday:
After work I have visited Fabienne's place. Our dinner was chinese food and was very delicious. And if this good meal wasn't already good enough, it has been accompanied with a very good conversation with her father. We have been talking about religion (what in normal case is very delicated), psychology and sciences. I think, that I could give a good impression to her father, aswell he has gave me a good impression. Later on we have droven back to my place again.

Saturday:
It started with my laundry. I actually wanted to start about 10.00 a.m., but my neighbor jamed my time of wash! -Well thank you! At last I could do my wash with more than 2 hours delay. And I anyway have been sleeping till 11.00 a.m. :-)
So we did our customary shopping and finished household around 4.00 p.m. and didn't have time yet to prepair ourselfs for the dinner this evening with my mummy. She has invited us again for asian food and I enjoyed this dinner aswell. All time through the visite, Fabienne and my mom have been freaked out on the karaoke-rig! Fabienne seem's to be very ambitious on this sport and also get's good ratings. -Most of time/tries have been over 90 (max. by 100).

Sunday:
We went to church but wheren't that satisfied from the homily this time. It was like an over-expanded version of "church-marketing" all time long! Imagine you want to visite church for the word of God, but only get advertisment. Well done, after church Fabienne and I went for a short brunch at the mainstation of Zurich. She had to leave again to Zug and later to Bern. In the afternoon I got visitors at my place. The sisters of my ex-g'friend came, to have a sightseeing of my penthouse and seemed like they have been 'wowy'-surprised. As well Simon and later-on Florian came for an other movie. Taxi4 is a Luc Besson film, but no more on the high action and entertainment -level as the other 3 parts.

Well, it's Monday and I feel in good shape to show me again under good skills on my job. I do use audio-CD's to "brainwash" myself into good mood and success. Maybe you (some of my guests on this blog) should do the same... ;-)

Today's motto: Best way to show your teeth to enemy - smile :-D

Birthday Bowl

Grüezi! (=A Swiss 'hello')

Yesterday evening I/we was/where invited to my cousin's Birthday Bowling. Imagine a group of students, running out of range and booze - booze - booze! I guess it wasn't that challenging for me to beat them. So think I, if I win with just 151 points (twice in three matches) it wasn't that significant at all... :-(
But Fabienne was truly good. Most of the time she was right behind me...
It was real fun in overall! As we finished, I drove behind them to turn into the main-street, as all of a sudden the driver on front, pool over besides. Guess what! Yep, an other had to puke! Well it was late and I had to go home... in other words, I can't tell you how long they needed for a distance of maybe 5,5 km (about 3,5 Miles). :-D
So in mind of this, guess how this 'party' was? :-)))

This morning I went with Fabienne for a workout. I was in good shape, but unfortunately no more in the level I used to. In other words, I shall go again more to the gym, as I used in the past weeks.

It's so important to me, to rise up any area in my life. I think a lot about what will be in future, what person I want to be. How others do admire me. I don't think, that I'm a long distance away from this visualized person I want to be. It's just all about getting constantly. To have a mission I want to stand for.

So! What's stands on? Today's Friday, that means probably - oh man(!) - WEEKEND!

This evening I'm invited at Fabienne's place for dinner. She and her father... and the dullard! ;)
Than we'll go again to Zurich. In fact we also have to. Because tomorrow I have laundry to do in the morning. What we gonna do on Saturday evening I don't know yet. Sunday church... So far my plans for this weekend.

Over lunchtime I found time for my blog, but this afternoon I have to knuckle down with work.

Am I motivated? Yes!
Am I in good shape? Yes!
Am I ready to rumble? Yes!

Oh and my AIDS/HIV - Test has been negative, so it's positive! ;-)

- So let the weekend come and to you - lot's of fun and nice impressions! Cya Mondayyyy!

Today's motto: Don't worry! There's always light beyond the tunnel! ;)

Just a normal day

Hello chap!

Yesterday afternoon till evening I had a very quite and smooth day. After fulfilling my daily target I left the office earlier. I had to give my blood sample for the AIDS - test. After all questions, like for example taking drugs -doesn't matter if you take once a while a joint ;-) nor if you chase the dragon they wanna know it. -Anyhow, where did I stand? Oh yes, the questions, they took of blood, gave me a code, that I can call them today at 5p.m.! (hope I won't forget this) 8-)

Afterwards I fetch up Simon (http://e-rat.blogspot.com). He had the movie "shooter" with Marky Mark, we wanted to see. Fabienne was at this time already at my home. So at home once again we have watched a movie... Strait after Simon left -Fabienne ate canneloni and Sven received. The day before he forgot his batch at my place and called it again. But in all this rhythm I didn't think about what was going on in Soccer! I almost past the Championsleague! For a european man this is like you would pass the Superbowl in the US! :-D

Unfortunately my favorit-team lost. Manu! There, where it didn't rank among, Manchester won against AS Roma with 7 to 1. But against AC Milan they couldn't hold their potential and lost 3:0! How come? They lost their focus on what's really important. Didn't give the best and so they lost and deserved it! :-((

Today I started in an excellent way. Stand up and manipulate myself for business-success till I arrived my office. (Heard Anthony Robbins Audiofile CANI) As I start up all I had to, I just made a deal with the first call... And now I'm writing this post! ;-)

Why don't I always have the resources to hold-up my force? Why am I not constantly in this mood? -Ah yeah, I'm a human... :-) But enhancement fallows after winning against your inner swine -on every f**** day! And that's what keeps me on and on again. To aspire to higher things in all life-cycle belongs.

Today's motto: You got one life to success - so live not survive!

PS: A guy wrote me an email regarding my blog and his situation in life. He just lost his job and has been kicked out of his flat. He wanted to know, which questions I would ask myself and handle this situation. -Well, as I wrote you back: you got two possibilities. Either you gain or lose. You got the chance to invent yourself new! As you have seen in the past, it didn't bring you further as you have been. It's time to change. Time to show up, what you really got in you. And it's all about a decision. The decision you may make in two directions to be successful. Either you sweep toward (to success) or you stampede (from destitution)! You have to know, what will figure out the successful way for you. If you want to sweep toward, imagine in every case and situation you are: What would I do right now, if I would already be successful? If you stampede: What HAVE I to do right now, to move away from my old habits and this crappy situation? -Just a decision! And in anyway, you owe it to you! -Think about!! ;)

Commitement 4u!

Yesterday, @ the fist of May we have had a public holiday here in Switzerland. Well not all of us really got a day off. I for example had to work in the morning. In the afternoon I took free, as I can organize my own working-time. ;-)

But anyhow! It's not what I wanna talk about. In the last days I notice several things around me. It doesn't have any relation to me, but on people around me. The way people think. I realized manifold the same case. As a (wo-)man enters in a situation they don't want to be rope in. Most typical reaction: Dramatic overdoing and proclaim at first. -Hello?! Are you guys serious?

Our brain doesn't implement this kind of action in a positiv way. At first your brain tells you: "Okay bro', what a shit you fell in this time?" Is it this, what you necessary need to improve?

Let me give an example on mine! If I enter a situation that's shitty, I don't neclet it. Because, if it's looking like shit, smells like and seems like, I don't have to comment it. It is already! But I ask myself, how may I handle this in a way, that brings me further. I ask myself, which point of view will help me. And do you know why I'm asking myself in this way? Because it's my responsibility! -I don't want to let a situation get over my management. That's what I demand from life!

Look (as you also may find in my blog), I'm not in good mood all the time. But my goal is, at least to have 80% positive allure and 20% negative odds! Eight of ten days my life turns in a right matter. Two days I kept in negative mood... And at last, I may say: 80% of my life I still had nice experiences and was in good shape! Is it worthy? -Think so!

I don't want to cloy anyone. But I want to share my know-how, my first-hand! I'm 27 years old! Got a penthouse and an Eclipse in the garage! Got a job, where I got unlimited opportunity to earn money. Have studied economics and completed in the ranking. Got plenty of friends. Got a handfull of real friends. Got love from my family and my girlfriend. Am good in body-shape, as I go at least once a week to a workout. Oh yes, I got days where I wished better not have stand up. But the reason I'm at this point, I have a goal! I demand to considerable degree of my own life. I do demand, because I deserve it! It's my right and my will!

What do I want? Do I want to live in a way, alway being in rage? -No! I want to be as often as possible in good mood, shape and motivation. I want to be the guy I visualize. It's my fair right!

Getting into this daily fight, with my inner swine and win, is the key of my success. And in my blog I show you on every day, how I can handle this!

So listen! -It's time to handle! -It's time to stand-up! It's your lifetime! Be positive! If you failure, you at least tried. And as easy it sounds, I would lie to you, if I would say it is. But keep trying it, will bring each of us further in all life belongs!

Today's motto: Be clear in what you want (in your life), because there's no one else giving you this clearance.

PS: Fabienne's father didn't call me. Think he did inform himself... ;-)