OOOhh shoooooooot!

(View out of my kitchen. The clouds looks like two bombs)
HiU

Instead saying "shit", say "shoot". This morning I had reason to say it! Yesterday afternoon, I forgot to visite a meeting with a customer... Today he wrote me, that he's on to find an other partner, who wants to help him and blablablaa...

So I wrote him back how sorry we are and all those things you write in this situation and hope, he'll give us a second chance to make this mistake good again. I lost control on this case, because my boss told me, to postpone the meeting, in fact he has to go to an other customer for emergency reason. But I dude forgot to postpone this appointement with our client and here I am :-(

But on the other side, I made again a new deal today. So the mistake above isn't that shitty :-D

An other palaver with Fabienne this noon helped me in the deep I had with our relationship. I told her today again, how I feel if we got a chat for a small issue and out of the conversation it's getting into a real big case. Due out, you may say: Don't make a real huge shit out of a fart!

And as I could tell her all these things, that makes me feel reject, I felt myself really better. In fact, I didn't know how to make the approach, because she's a little more special than other.
-Not only the fact, that she's my G'friend. ;o)

I'm accustomed to my knowledge as NLP - Practitioner, that I can lead someone simply and safely. But on her, some neurological inequalities don't allow it. So otherwise I also asked my mentor (Tony Robbins) on this kind of case. I hope he'll give me an answer ASAP! But on the chat we had today, I hope we can builed up. Because she knows now exactly how I feel on this. I could tell her my point in a way, where I hope she'll understand it. I don't give any blame. It's just how I feel.

Today's motto: Non scholae, sed vitae discimus. (It's not for the school, it's for our life we learn)

It's a new day with a new chance!

Hello!

Today all seem so strange to me. I'm still in this 7-days-thinking-positive-game/challenge. And what really makes me feeling strange is, that every time I'm together with Fabienne, I got to bring a special effort to keep up my challenge. Just to be clear, I don't give her any blame! But at any time, I'm together, we got a talk, it's forcasting me in this area.

I can't explain this to me. I made different schoolings in (lifestyle-)management, where you learn how to be over situations reflecting you in a bad way. But I'm really getting tired with this non-sence conversations about what should be and why it is the way it is.

As you can read from my blog-text, I'm a guy, who always looks after solutions on situations. I try to get a short overview, over a given situation and try to implement directly a solution. I try hard to look forward on things. And now, it's like this conversations do hold me back - slow down my "drive".

I try to handle this kind of interpretation in a way, that can help me. But to be honest right now; the last and this week, this kind of effort is just lopsided.

If you want a relationship that holds as long both parties want it, then you have to give special intention on the fallowing: The effort you give in the beginning of a relationship, isn't to satisfy your future partner, so he will give you the chance. The effort you give in as such, you have to hold on all the time. You always have to maintain it! Keep it up! Show your partner, that you're on giving the best in the relationship all time long. Don't let one chance out, to show him (her) that you still love him (her)! That makes the distinction of a harmonic relationship. And that's the goal you should keep in mind. -All the time! And if there's a case, where you have to give an input to reach a goal. Don't forget to search for solutions. As soon you start see the problem (all the time), the relationship will stand on shaky leggs. Because the other will start in mind: "Now, is this all I got?" -So once again, be positive! Think big! And don't ever give up to live the life you deserve!!!

Today's motto: Every man is the architect of his own fortune

I am luckyyyyy 8-)

Hi guys!

My day started not that good, actually. I was dozy and came into office around 1100 a.m.! I forgot my meeting with the customer at 2 o'clock p.m. and still had to make some preperations! I fell myself like in trance moving through the office like a dead body ;-)
I forgot to wear shirt and tie and went to this meeting with my poloshirt on! And now the cycle will close.

The other guy also came just with a t-shirt an fell out almost of laughter by seeing me also in this casual shape... ;-)

And what happened? I introduced him to our services our company profile and went directly to his need. And his need can be covered through-out our services... So I count 1 and 1 together and received the deal! So, what do I whish more??? I'm so lucky, all could be brought in that easy.

I got now an other one waiting for me, but isn't a meeting for a new deal... more on other affairs... I'm done now and have to make it short. Whish you a nice and pleasend day!

Today's motto: The mischief of it is that I don’t know him

Try it!

Hi Volks,

Thank you I received so many feedback regarding the test I wrote down the other day in thinking positive for at least seven day's in a row! (See post: Mental diet) Okay, we are about eight to ten persons, that want's to try the test of thinking positive.

On day four, I failed! But on day three, I really was in a hard challange! Last Friday I had a personal training in my gym. But unfortunately I never reached there! I had a break down with my car! First of all, my steering-wheel blocked in mid of the road! I couldn't move it at all but lucky me I could break out so nothing other happened. As I went out of the car, to see if something was broke, but I couldn't find anything so I called the road-help! And as I wanted to go back to the car, it was locked! And my keys where inside... All on front of my gym!!! >:-o

Than the road-help came and told me, before he does look what happened I got to bill 150 box! -Just because he came... still didn't do anything on my car! Well good for me, my father was in the club of the swiss road-help and he could handle it, so I didn't have to pay this... But in the garage, I had to pay 150 box for the repair! But I still keeped my positive thinking! After all!!!

On Saturday finally I broke! And as usual it was a really small crap, that made me explode... At the evening the parents of Fabienne came to visite us/me. So Fabienne and I did the household, shopping, all the usual thinks you got to do when you live alone! And on the cleaning some little shit happened. We had a sticker on the floor that held the sofa in it's position. Finally, by intention or not-intention, someone took away this sticker and has put it on top uf the saloon-table. This table is just for momentary! So the quality isn't that high. And the sticker, was in very high quality... ;-) So guess what happened. I took away the sticker of the table and the paint of the table aswell... And at this point I yelled! I tried so hard with my visitors and anyhow to be that careful as possible, that this table would hold that nice, till I would have enough cash to finance me a new one with more style. But than, since Saturday, it didn't work out and I was that disappointed. And what didn't make it more easy, Fabienne looked at me like: Why this bust because such a small shit??? She didn't get my point and couldn't understand me. :-(
Well after all, the dinner was very nice.

So on Sunday I started again with this test/game. And till today, I could get through this without problems.

Today I got to do some deal and go again for gym. Because I'm in a cure, as you know. (food combining + 5x workout a week, for the next six weeks)

Today's motto: DON'T WORRY, BE HAPPY §-)

THX 4 Trying it!

asta la vistaaaaa!

Today I'm such in good form! I'll go this afternoon for a personal training in Holmes Place, that's my gym. I'm anxious to this workout. In two month I want to be at the same weight, but in other proportions :-).

I'm:

Height: 178cm
Weight: 72 kg
BMI: 22,72 (ideal 20 - 25)

But on my workout skills I seem to be a little in arrears... I want to see again my defined body. My hard muscles all over the upper body and wuff I'm out of dreaming... :-(

It's a hard work, but in the end, the value is it worth!

hard training will come on me in the next five weeks. I'm on this cure and I'll do like 5 times a week training. I have to! I hope, that in the end I'll really get to the goal i want. Similar like the man on the pic! That's my goal! You may pre-check a before and after soon. :-D

This weekend I'll be non-stop on the move! Today this PT (personal training), than go to Fabienne's place. Tomorrow go shopping and tidy up my flat, because in the evening the parents of Fabienne will come to visite me... 8o)))

and oohm... Sunday Florian and Co. will come to me for a movie Hostel2 (or something like that).

Today's motto: The one, who can't recognize the life as luck, didn't think enough about the alternativ

MENTAL DIET

Hallooooooo!


Fabienne and I had in the last days a turbulent time. First my meeting on Monday with my ex and her opinion about my friendship with Fabienne. Than the discussion about defending Naemi on front of Fabienne, by her insertions. Than a conversation between Fabienne and one of her old colleagues of her ex-Hockeyteam. A conversation that has got different clues of suggestiveness (that only can be builed by both sides of the dialogue). All-in-all, there where different points in reciprocity, that made the other think in a bad-view about the situation of the partner.


And as I thought about these past days, I recall something of my past. It's like maybe eight years ago. I've visited a managementcourse and have been challenged in a new kind of thinking. The subject of that day was "positive thinking". The participants of the course where asked to make the fallowing test:

Think positive for 7-days in one row!

That means / here the roulez:

• Can you concentrate for one week, not to have one negative thought?! In your whole life, it's just one week, but can you??? ;-)
• It's not by having no negative thought, but if one comes up, you don't say/speak it!
• You don't hold the negative feeling or thought!
• It's not a "doll-mentality" like to see everything through rose-colored glasses! But be SMART on the situation and handle it postive!
• Look for positive solutions like: "What is good about this?"
• Concentrate on solutions not on problems!
• Be curious and not judgemental. Because if you judge someone else, it may be, that you aren't a fad better. It may be, you judge the other person just because you're in bad mood!
• And at last a hint: If you smile (whimsically / coquettish), you can pass this easier! ;-)

I know by myself I needed like about 4-5 weeks, before I really passed through this bet/game! And I know what the out-come is! Your environment will also change in your presence. The feedback you receive from people outside, will delight you! Person around you will react different. -A sort of more comfortable to you! ;-)

And now -this morning I gave this duty to my GF! And I will also give me on this test. (Just to proof, that it's possible - again!)

Today's motto: Ah, nowadays we are all of us so hard up, that the only pleasant things to pay are compliments.o.w.

Motivated nutzzzz!

Ciao!

Oh my God! Today all seems a little more nerved! I came in the office at 0930 a.m. (quite late, I know) . But that was not the mess, the mess came from my boss. He asked me about the figures and if we're at average. I told him, that we are 'at' not 'over' nor 'below'. Than he told me how important it is, that we can gain some new business out there and we, as team, wouldn't be AT average, we're BELOW! Hello?! >:-o

I could proof (I had to) him, that the difference, the cap between isn't from him, nor from me either. I showed him, that on every single day, in the last three months, I close one deal! And now, all of a sudden it's no longer okay. We have to move on and get into more business...

Than I got a complain, regarding my morality at work. The usual one! "You can't come in after nine and go again before four! That's not professional! Blablablablaaaa!" I tell you! This sucks! Because on every single day I got a target to fulfil. And this target is on a daily base. And what shall I do, if I fulfil already by noon? -I do my closures and leave! Why shall I stay??? If I do more, than I should, I'm not gonna payed! If they pay me, I work from 0900 a.m. till 900 p.m.! But than they should pay me at least CHF 200'000.- a year! And if they do this, I'll bring them more business in. Becuase I can provide myself with strategies that would bring us farther. But I want to get payed.

Oh yeah, some strange person from AXA-Winterthur asked me, if I'm interested to work there. Negative is, it's an insurance. Positive, they can pay me! ;-) But I think the kind of approach from this person (over a party community page) can't be serious! Probabely it's again a 'possibility' of earning as much you want in direct comparison with a Multi-Level-Marketing system. As I can earn 200'000.- p.a. as I builed my own structure and so on...! But I definitely won't go "devil-on-the-doorstep"! And all in all, I'm trained in B2B not B2C. But well, I'll get a look on this as I do proof any offer. -Because you never know, if it could be the offer of your life...

Hope it's not just a waste of time. As you know, there where different companies asking me in the last months. But all the time long, I just got disappointed. This guys just search for a jerk, who makes their jobs..., resp. they couldn't give me that, what I wanted. I want a straight pay-out per year from at least netto 120'000 box! And I want to get a provision or share of turnover for my efforts!

As long no one else comes with such an offer, I stay... I'm happy as it works out the way here. :-)
Today's motto: My experience is that as soon as people are old enough to know better, they don’t know anything at all. O.W.