Day five! ;)

jepa!

Soon I got it over. My test, if I can think straight seven days after another positive. Well if this fallowing weekend won't come up with any major surprize, I'll handle this. :))


(Switzerland in winter)
So in this manner I want to loose some words again today and starting that with yesterday!

We got a very - very - very good and nice news. Simon, my friend, who has worked the last six months as a painter for a welfare service of Zurich has got a better job now! He signed the contract yesterday to start within one of the largest insurances in the world, as a junior supporter. Guess some days ago, when he heared from the school's that he's in need of more certificates, he fellt himself distracted, rejected and for sure a little frustrated. But now, with this kind of news, these feelings seem so far away!

Before going to sleep, I listened to an audio-file of Anthony Robbins. And it isn't that absurd from him to say: You get, what you focus on!

As most of us do concentrate on things horrorable could be. Or they see the worstcase and if it happens, they tell to themself: See, I knew it! But in this moment you think like this, it's like a confirm to your brain to focus out, also in future to the worstcase. And here I ask you; is this useful? I think you know the answer!

Overall you may say, that it's all about being SMART! Don't curse around - because it makes you feel bad about/on something. Search for solutions - and stop seeing problems all over. But also be honest. If it's shit, you don't have to prettify it - but guess what you can learn or see at least something positive on it. If you do so, your mind starts to turn over in being more productive in anything, what area ever...! Belief it! Either you grow or you standstill. If you standstill, you make regress! That are all facts! If you want it or not, they will be there anyway!

The fallowing weekend will be varied! Today I'm invited for the diploma-dinner of Fabienne's brother. Tomorrow I'll have to make my household by my own, because she'll have to learn for her tests next week at school. And on Sunday I'll be again invited for a party from Fabienne's side. Her family has got a huge meeting with all the other namesake of the region. And on Sunday evening, I'll plan my switch-out (named by myself for just hang and loose at home and doing nothing).

Today's motto: Don’t cross your bridges until you come to them!

My passion!

Hoi!

I'm today on my fourth day in the seven-day-bet-thinking-positive! And days as today make it seem easy. I came into the office and started-up all I had to and just made again one deal. I'm like hunting... but this way of object helps me in gain new deals :-)

I got an imazing improve in between the last nine days. My fitness-coach made a test with me, to see how my values are and was very surprized. (values in BMI, muscle, water and fat) All figures are in the range of a professional jock. And he sad, that it's normally just with Bodybuilder, you may see the kind of improve I've done. 2 kg plus in eight days training... Soon I'll reach the estimated goal for end July. It's hard to hold up the discipline with my nutrition. But it's just four weeks still to go... and I'm looking already forward to our vacation.

As well yesterday I payed the rest-amount I still had to. So the next two weeks, we'll receive our tickets and so on. I made some thoughts about this seven-day-bet! And I find it's way more, than just thinking positive. At the first time I've done this, I didn't realize this view I got now. In fact it's a kind of diet. It's like you don't take advantage of anything that could pull you into something negative. If you pad a situation, that's getting delicate, you find an other approach before you're involved.
So your approach to the situation won't neglect in something negative. You search non-stop for solutions and stop seeing any problems! If you want to yell out, because you find something shitty, you start using different words, that won't let it make it that dramatic! I realize, that it's starting again to make a difference in my mind and it's also starting to change my view on my own standarts in some cases.

As I told yesterday, you don't know, where it ends nor how. But you know by doing it, that it's it worth. And so I keep up the discipline in many areas of my actual situation in life. I got to move and I belief I'll get a good profit out in the end... I just have to go through this! I must! ;-)

Today's motto: More than anything else, protect your hearth, because it assumes your life!

Situation out here!

Heyyyy!

Yesterday I hade a goodish day throughout! I decided to do a new approach on my finances. As you know, I was searching for a way to rise my skills in this area. After toy with the idea of giving this kind of responsibility away from me, I decided to let roule this things by a trustee! A pretty long time I have been sitting there with the guy who makes this service.

He budget my household and gave me around CHF 250.- a week!!! (quite less)
But we had a goal on it. I told him, that I want a guy, who roulez all my monthly accounts. The budget I got, is for food, fuel, household and outgoing! With the rest of my salary, he'll handle the accounts and will but the cash, that will stay beyond, to a separate account for saving-reason!

With the saving itself, I can handle it how ever I want. For example, if I got a 20'000 box left in this account, I can use it for shares, options, future, or whatever I want to use it.
I found a possibility to give this area in life momentary to an other person, who will handle it for me, till the day comes, where I can handle it myself again (the time, I'll have enough time to handle it by my own). ;-)

Yesterday evening I visited Simon. Since I know this guy very well, throughout the last 12 years I walk on earth, I realized a change within himself. He doesn't handle problems the old way he used to do. And yesterday, the schools he has been interested in, told him he wouldn't be allowed at the school, missing of certificates needed. Usually, or I mean before that time, he would have looked at it in the way: "Okay, fuck-it! I can't do it this way, so how can I make it in a different way?"

But than he fell out of bluster! Just felt himself rejected and even frustrated. Hard on this, he also is on the bet, to do the 7-days-positive-thinking! And had to start new! I asked him, what can you see positive on it? But it looked like nothing... :-(

I think, the reason why people like Simon fall back in an old pattern again, is the fallowing: They didn't conduct their new habits. If you commit, that you have to change your life, as it has been in past, you have to move your ass continuously! Isn't it that easy? Let me recall Thomas Edison: If it doesn't work the way you expected, change in a new approach. And if the outcome still isn't as you want, guess what!? Change your fuck' approach again! And if it still doesn't figure out! GUESS WHAT!!?? Change your approach again! Haven't you realized, that no one out here has got a recipe for your personal success??? You, and no one else has to give action. If it doesn't function, you have to change it again. And how many times would you fuckin' change your approach, before you would achieve your aim? Well to tell you, Thomas tried more than one-tousand times, before he invented the light bulb! And what about you? How many times, would you try to give a new implementation to reach your goal?

I don't know about you! But I know about me and I would rather die than abandon! If I really DECIDED myself to reach a goal in one area of life, than nothing else can take me away from! Because that's my standart that I stand for in my life! If I won't hold this standart, life wouldn't be worth it! (In my special life, it also has to do alot with my faith)

So also to you my dearest friend, -move! Move your ass one more time! I can't tell you, where it end's. But finally I can tell you, it's worth it!

Today's motto: "Be brave as your fathers before you. Have faith and go forward" Thomas Alva Edison "

Nice weekend, but fucked up Monday!

oh ohhhh!

As you can see this time, I made many things this weekend. All stored at the pix! On Friday we had a man's "gamer-night" at my place. And how could it be else than smoking and drinking, gaming soccer till our eyes got squared... 8-)

The day after, was a torture. But in the end not that shitty as expected.

As Fabienne came in the morning, estimated was actually noon, but she came one hour earlier. The only thing she's seen from me, is my butt on a long valley back to bed. :-)) As I woke up later we went shopping and all those usual stuffs. In the evening we had a quit and calm stay at home.

On Sunday we went even to church... and in the afternoon we visited the lake-side of Zurich. It was Ironman Switzerland. The distance, which they had to link up behind was somehow like: 3,5km swimming, 80 km biking and 42km walking... And as you can take out of the pix, some of the guys did walk in the last area like zomies. (Not that surprising - if I imagine, that I would have to go the same distance) Well yeah, in the evening I didn't feel myself in good mood. I had the runs... And so I tried as less to make as possible. And now finally the week started in a real messy way.

I sent my boss to an appointment, that didn't take place!!! And had to get some arguement to hear. And so I started to think about my job here. And I had to face something not that good. I love my job. I adore to manage projects and tune up skills of the sales-team with my strategies. I like to be in a dynamic place, like here! Also the payment is a dream. But what does this all use, if there's no-one around, seeing what you really do for the company. In fact, the upper management just wants to see skills and facts (what wouldn't be that curious to me)!

But the aren't objective! They see cases like the one this morning and screw-up a non-professional way. On the other hand, they bother you on such, but don't see behind the success me and my department made. Excuse, my dep. has made a rise of over about 8-10 mio. and do make closures of new deals at least one a day! No other structure in whole Europe of our company can hit this skill, but no, they more want to bother on appointments, that didn't work out for any reason.

Shit happens and it isn't corruptive for our company at all! I see it in the way, that you have to do a balance! If the shit, what happens is bigger than the pluses you gain, you should go over this and handle it! But if a chicken feed get's more important than the pluses you gain, -I think I'm at the wrong place. My job is lovely! I like it and it's a passion! But the company.... :-( / ;-)

Today's motto: Move towards! There's always light at the end of the tunnel.

OOOhh shoooooooot!

(View out of my kitchen. The clouds looks like two bombs)
HiU

Instead saying "shit", say "shoot". This morning I had reason to say it! Yesterday afternoon, I forgot to visite a meeting with a customer... Today he wrote me, that he's on to find an other partner, who wants to help him and blablablaa...

So I wrote him back how sorry we are and all those things you write in this situation and hope, he'll give us a second chance to make this mistake good again. I lost control on this case, because my boss told me, to postpone the meeting, in fact he has to go to an other customer for emergency reason. But I dude forgot to postpone this appointement with our client and here I am :-(

But on the other side, I made again a new deal today. So the mistake above isn't that shitty :-D

An other palaver with Fabienne this noon helped me in the deep I had with our relationship. I told her today again, how I feel if we got a chat for a small issue and out of the conversation it's getting into a real big case. Due out, you may say: Don't make a real huge shit out of a fart!

And as I could tell her all these things, that makes me feel reject, I felt myself really better. In fact, I didn't know how to make the approach, because she's a little more special than other.
-Not only the fact, that she's my G'friend. ;o)

I'm accustomed to my knowledge as NLP - Practitioner, that I can lead someone simply and safely. But on her, some neurological inequalities don't allow it. So otherwise I also asked my mentor (Tony Robbins) on this kind of case. I hope he'll give me an answer ASAP! But on the chat we had today, I hope we can builed up. Because she knows now exactly how I feel on this. I could tell her my point in a way, where I hope she'll understand it. I don't give any blame. It's just how I feel.

Today's motto: Non scholae, sed vitae discimus. (It's not for the school, it's for our life we learn)

It's a new day with a new chance!

Hello!

Today all seem so strange to me. I'm still in this 7-days-thinking-positive-game/challenge. And what really makes me feeling strange is, that every time I'm together with Fabienne, I got to bring a special effort to keep up my challenge. Just to be clear, I don't give her any blame! But at any time, I'm together, we got a talk, it's forcasting me in this area.

I can't explain this to me. I made different schoolings in (lifestyle-)management, where you learn how to be over situations reflecting you in a bad way. But I'm really getting tired with this non-sence conversations about what should be and why it is the way it is.

As you can read from my blog-text, I'm a guy, who always looks after solutions on situations. I try to get a short overview, over a given situation and try to implement directly a solution. I try hard to look forward on things. And now, it's like this conversations do hold me back - slow down my "drive".

I try to handle this kind of interpretation in a way, that can help me. But to be honest right now; the last and this week, this kind of effort is just lopsided.

If you want a relationship that holds as long both parties want it, then you have to give special intention on the fallowing: The effort you give in the beginning of a relationship, isn't to satisfy your future partner, so he will give you the chance. The effort you give in as such, you have to hold on all the time. You always have to maintain it! Keep it up! Show your partner, that you're on giving the best in the relationship all time long. Don't let one chance out, to show him (her) that you still love him (her)! That makes the distinction of a harmonic relationship. And that's the goal you should keep in mind. -All the time! And if there's a case, where you have to give an input to reach a goal. Don't forget to search for solutions. As soon you start see the problem (all the time), the relationship will stand on shaky leggs. Because the other will start in mind: "Now, is this all I got?" -So once again, be positive! Think big! And don't ever give up to live the life you deserve!!!

Today's motto: Every man is the architect of his own fortune

I am luckyyyyy 8-)

Hi guys!

My day started not that good, actually. I was dozy and came into office around 1100 a.m.! I forgot my meeting with the customer at 2 o'clock p.m. and still had to make some preperations! I fell myself like in trance moving through the office like a dead body ;-)
I forgot to wear shirt and tie and went to this meeting with my poloshirt on! And now the cycle will close.

The other guy also came just with a t-shirt an fell out almost of laughter by seeing me also in this casual shape... ;-)

And what happened? I introduced him to our services our company profile and went directly to his need. And his need can be covered through-out our services... So I count 1 and 1 together and received the deal! So, what do I whish more??? I'm so lucky, all could be brought in that easy.

I got now an other one waiting for me, but isn't a meeting for a new deal... more on other affairs... I'm done now and have to make it short. Whish you a nice and pleasend day!

Today's motto: The mischief of it is that I don’t know him